'If Relationship Is Easy Then Marriage Will Be Difficult' – Blessing Okoro Says

The popular personality who has built a reputation for herself as the most controversial relationship coach in Africa made this post on her verified social media handle on the popular social media platform, Instagram.

The post that she made reads;


“If relationship is easy then marriage will difficult.

The real love is not peaceful.
Real love is WAR, how you fight and survive is the real meaning of love not avoiding fights.

The fights, creates a bound of understanding and commitment.


It is the fights that is called commitment.
(If you remember what you went through,you put in more work)
Many relationships and marriages has died out of laziness eg I don’t like stress 😀
Happy new month .
My birth month..”

Some reactions the post got are;

iidasophia – Why do you keep promoting toxicity? Fighting is not what creates love. War isn’t love. If there’s love, based on real things such as compatability, respect and communication (not always arguments), love is what makes u survive the fiighting….. jeeez…..

ifybecky – That means you loved your ex husband then, why did you not fight to save the marriage then. Asking for my client experiencing DV


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Shadow a.k. Thomas Evans Selah-Ahegbebu is an avid writer of entertainment and life style stories. I love to meet and learn new ways of doing things. Topics of interest are; Medicine, Entertainment & Life Style

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